I wish to not be an expert on parenting soccer players but I have to attest I've seen many and probably took a little from some and less from others. My expectations come from a background of having probably too much expectation on myself at an early age. As long as my son is having fun and continues to want to watch Barcelona games with Dad thats good enough for me. As long as Keane sleeps with his Barca ball I think I'm on the right track. He dreams of being 'messi', I dream of him being less messy.